Yesterday I was talking to my mom on the phone and we were talking about this path toward missions being involved with ethnomusicology. She chuckled and said, "Ten years ago would you have ever imagined?" Nope! It hadn't crossed my mind.
Way back when, I was intent on being a trombonist and college professor. Years of school (with Lori loyally supporting) and loads of interesting experiences and people made that vision become a reality. What came to pass after that is where our story toward missions gets interesting.
Sometimes the saddest events in your life are the beginning of something wonderful. In the Fall of 2004, our son David was stillborn. In spite of all of the grief, we grew tremendously in our faith and began attending
Redeemer PCA. We had renewed desire to understand theology, engage and invest ourselves in a church family, and deepen our relationship with the Lord. There was something electric about our spiritual growth that we can now look back on and see as preparation for our journey ahead.
In the summer of 2006, I was a bit frustrated with the academic world. While enjoying teaching, the other junk that goes along with the job was not so fun/fulfilling. A meeting with our pastor, Mike Sharrett, was arranged. It's a wonderful thing to have a pastor that used to be a career counselor at UVA before going to seminary! In those discussions, I shared that I really felt like I wanted to move toward full-time ministry. A range of possibilities from going to seminary and being a pastor to the mission field was brought up. Nothing tangible came out of those talks, but the wheels began turning.
Another year of contemplating how to steer toward ministry and searching for how we could be used went by. Then, an opportunity sprang up to travel to Africa with a group from Redeemer in the summer of 2008 to work in a community center presenting English conversation classes. Lori encouraged me to go and get the idea being involved with overseas ministry out of my system. It didn't work out the way she planned!
I immediately looked at the world differently and saw what my faith meant. Prayer became very different in my life. I had been changed to the core through the experience.
The idea of ministry became more real and the focus shifted toward cross-cultural missions. I had enjoyed being in a different culture so much and adapted easily enough that I really felt a call to use these gifts in ministry. Lori was skeptical and wisely so. But we attended a Vision Weekend at a mission organization and learned a lot about what "calling" was. Lori also felt relieved to know that if she didn't feel called the way I did, it was a sign that we shouldn't proceed.
The next summer, we again sent a group from Redeemer overseas to teach English in the same place and Lori came along this time. It was good for us to see each other in the cross-cultural situation and how we handled it. But still Lori had no burning sense of call. While I was willing to cash in all of the education and experience that I had in music to do just about anything on the mission field, Lori saw that as a waste of gifting. In hindsight, she was again quite wise.
But then...when looking around on the
Wycliffe website one evening, I found some links that led to the
Ethnomusicology/Arts group. I read through those and watched the videos. Something started to click. Lori came to the basement and looked at it also. She recognized quickly that this was something that she might feel called to - something that used the many abilities and gifts that we have.
We began a dialogue with Wycliffe and found out more. Sometimes as you gather more information about something, the luster wears off. That has not been true in this case. The more we have learned, the more motivated we get. In May of 2010, we visited the International Linguistics Center in Dallas to learn as much as we could about the use of Ethnomusicology in missions and came away very much impressed and inspired. We then felt truly called together to this work and have really embraced the vision of Wycliffe and its work.
As I mentioned in our first blog entry, the formal beginning to our journey was recent. But the development of our calling to this venture is a long story deep into the past. God's timing is so interesting, but we never really understand it until we can look over our shoulder and understand how the confluence of events shape us and prepare us.